LOVE:The most beautiful yet the most misunderstood emotion!
When two people fall in love ,what is it that makes them choose each other?
The physical attributes, the nature …a personality that resonates with theirs or is it something else I wonder!
Something is so attractive…it’simpossible to stay apart for a fleeting moment even…then suddenly it all changes,why?
The butterflies in your stomach move on to become a “choking blinder “!!!
Let’s see why :
a)When you are a couple,does it mean that all your other relationships are to be put to rest.Learn to respect The person and his/her circle as they are and not as you percieve them to be.Each relationship is important and holds a special place in one’s life.
b)Being possessive is fine but behaving “possessed” is insane.Being possessive does not mean you possess the other as a TROPHY of your yet another accomplishment.
You don’t decide how many breathes /min your trophy takes.
Be madly in love,yet allow the person the space and dignity to be totally at ease and to breathe.
Love is where you are at your most natural self,no pretentions,no fear ,just a smooth flow of life.
c)Being together is a beautiful feeling when you are just there for each other, when you understand the silence,when you don’t judge ,doubt or accuse….rather when you are ‘The’ home for the soul…where you empathize, believe and encourage.
d)Trust is the backbone of any relationship.
It’s a test for the couple at times when insecurities seep in,when your own fears play up,and you still hold on to each other,with determination and belief!
e)Maturity seals the bond.Being mature in a relationship is when there is mutual respect,understanding and oneness.Mature couples are the one’s that accept each other as a whole,the past ,the present and working towards building a future they dream of !
Daisy❤
(29th Oct’2019/13:32 noon)